Illegal affair charge as man claims he found wife in bed with stylist

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Wednesday, October 31, 2012
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A husband has described how he lashed out when a surprise visit to one of his wives ended in a shock discovery.

The Jordanian told Dubai Court of Misdemeanours on Tuesday how he decided to go and see one of his two spouses at her home in Discovery Gardens only to find her in bed with a male hairdresser.

The 31-year-old said: “I found her with him, totally naked. I was angry so I assaulted both of them and tried to call police.

  1. A husband has described how he lashed out when a surprise visit to one of his wives ended in a shock discovery

    A husband has described how he lashed out when a surprise visit to one of his wives ended in a shock discovery

“They kicked my hand so I dropped my phone. I then went into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

“I was in shock and didn’t know what to do,” he added in court records. “The stranger started begging me not to inform police and my wife escaped.”

The 31-year-old husband called one of his wife’s

colleagues, who came to their home and he asked him about the relationship between the two.

“Her colleague informed me that the man is my wife’s hairdresser,” he said. The husband told the Lebanese hairdresser that if he left the country within 24 hours he would not inform Dubai Police. However, the 33-year-old refused to leave so the husband filed a complaint at Jebel Ali Police Station.

A police investigation revealed the alleged lovers had known each other for three months. The husband added: “My wife and I had been married for six years. I discovered the hairdresser was visiting her every two days.”

The husband added: “I found a booking in my wife’s name for a hotel in Dubai and protection in the bin.”

The Jordanian wife claimed the Lebanese man was just a friend and she had only called him to come to the house because she had pains in her stomach.

She said he had gone to sleep in the guest room and had no idea why he was lying next to her naked. The court was told that the husband has waived his rights, saying that he has forgiven his wife and wants a fresh start with her.

The woman and the Lebanese man are charged with having an illegal affair and consuming alcohol.

The case has been adjourned.

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  • Profile image for El. La

    by El. La

    Wednesday, January 30 2013, 10:32AM

    “She's a home recker and a prostitute! first she lured the married man to marry her KNOWING that he's already married, and went on to have some fun on her own.
    Before bashing and ranting on me, I AM AN ARAB WOMAN, and I know that, although poligamy is somehow acceptable by Islam, it is not so much acceptable by society anymore, and only a small percentage of men marry more than one.
    As for giving her the pretext that her husband is not satissfying her needs, SHE KNEW HE had a first wife, so his "efforts" to satisfy her would bedivided in 2. But she married him anyway that home-recker gold digger.
    I woudln't have blamed his first wife for cheating on him, though, she's the only victim in this scenario, I hope she IS CHEATING.”

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    by Derek Mullings

    Tuesday, January 29 2013, 6:22PM

    “She, 'had no idea why he was lying next to her naked.' Perhaps she should take a wild guess.”

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    by dxbgal

    Saturday, November 03 2012, 9:11PM

    “Anwar I do not know these people as you said, but I do know the basics of this case which is the wife cheated. As mentioned in my earlier comment, she should not have cheated but she was obviously unhappy with either the emotional or physical side of her marriage or both or something was lacking which is why she went to another man to fill that void I never said what she did is right. So don't twist my words into something else to give you an excuse to rant!
    As for both parties being at fault sometimes that is the case sometimes and sometimes it's not, you can't say every situation is the same. And as Sharon says, why did he choose to involve the police who can spend their time fighting crime instead of investigating a domestic issue what an immature individual. A real man would have walked out taken this as a sign he made a mistake by marrying her and gotten divorced.”

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    by in dubai too long

    Friday, November 02 2012, 11:01PM

    “@ Anwar A, i have lived in Middle East far too long now and i have seen fully covered women use their covering as a way to go and meet up men other than their husband...we are not being judgmental. But men as well have their own small house at the front of their big villas with separate entrance not visible to the main house and this is the place where the men can have "fun"
    I know having 2 or more wives is common practice in this part of the world as it is being permitted by it's belief as long as the man can keep both satisfied and would not be envious of each other or jealous.
    If she is cheating on her husband then she should ask for divorce but as far as i know it will be costly to the husband plus what if the husband did not permit it?
    There is a lot of scenario at the topic above. Though there is a saying "One cannot have two masters at one time"
    The topic above says the husband complained to the police that HIS 2ND wife is cheating on him. "do unto others what you want others done onto you"”

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    by Anwar A

    Thursday, November 01 2012, 11:06AM

    “@DxbGal
    How come you are making such pre-judgements??? You don't know these people.
    Well you could go another way as well. You can say she is a nympho and she was sleeping around.
    And who said anything about happiness??? Does cheating on your husband brings you happiness???
    My point is don't be judgmental. I'm sure both parties are at fault but no one knows the reality except them.”

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    by The Observer

    Thursday, November 01 2012, 10:10AM

    “In this context of the environment & culture that surrounds us, we need to understand that on certain cicrumstances we have women who accepts marriage to a man who has a first wife only due to 1) his wealth 2) security/visa 3)prevlidged lifestyle.

    They are not interested in 'love'....intention from day one was for the above.

    It's a sad state of affairs to be honest, i'm sure he's not that clean either & maybe slightly neglectful to her 'needs', that still doesnt justify what she did.”

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    by dxbgal

    Wednesday, October 31 2012, 7:14PM

    “Best to stick with one wife instead of getting two! You reap what you sow! He obviously could not keep her happy so she filled the void by looking for happiness elsewhere! Obviously she should not have cheated but she also is stupid for marrying a bigamist!”

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    by Anwar A

    Wednesday, October 31 2012, 3:58PM

    “@ Sharon Siacon
    Does that mean if your husband does not satisfy, you go and sleep around???
    and if you found out that your spouse if cheating on you and belittling your sacred contract, you wouldn't call the police???
    I wonder what type of morality your parents have taught you!!!”

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    by Sharon Siacon

    Wednesday, October 31 2012, 9:34AM

    “Why having two wife when you cant satisfied the other one? and complained when shes with other man while your with one of your wife? I know its cultural issue, however its plain PERSONAL ISSUE, no need to involved the police in this matter.”

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